The Weight of Expectation We all do it. We place our hopes, our dreams, and a part of our happiness on someone else's shoulders. We expect them to be there for us, to understand us, to follow through on a promise. It's a natural part of human connection to want to rely on others, to believe in their good intentions. But what happens when those expectations aren't met? The feeling is a mix of disappointment, betrayal, and deep sadness. It's as if a solid foundation you were standing on suddenly crumbles. That promise, that understanding, that support you counted on... it was all an illusion. The pain isn't just from what didn't happen; it’s from the realization that the person you thought you knew, or the situation you were so sure about, was something else entirely. The Cycle of Letdown This kind of heartbreak isn't a one-time event. It can become a cycle. We get our hopes up, we are let down, we swear we won't do it again, but then we meet s...
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