Nayaab by Ashhar

There was a time when having a “normal job” meant stability, dignity, and survival. Today, even that basic expectation feels like a luxury. For millions of people, the struggle is no longer about finding a dream job—it is about finding any job that can support daily livelihood. When Survival Becomes the Goal Most people are not chasing big titles or high salaries. They are looking for work that pays rent, buys groceries, supports family, and allows them to live with basic dignity. Yet even these ordinary jobs feel painfully out of reach. Applications go unanswered. Interviews get delayed or canceled. Job requirements keep increasing while salaries stay the same—or disappear altogether. The simplest roles now demand years of experience, multiple skills, and complete flexibility, leaving job seekers exhausted and confused. Rejections Without Reasons One of the hardest parts of this struggle is silent rejection. No feedback. No explanation. Just waiting and hoping. Every...

In a world that celebrates loud voices, constant networking, and nonstop social energy, introverts often feel invisible. They are misunderstood as shy, antisocial, or lacking confidence. In reality, introvert people possess a depth of strength that rarely seeks attention—but quietly shapes the world. Silence Is Not Weakness Introverts do not fear speaking; they value meaning. They choose words carefully, preferring depth over noise. While others rush to be heard, introverts listen, observe, and understand. Their silence is not emptiness—it is awareness. Being quiet in a loud world requires courage. Deep Thinking, Strong Vision Introverts live in their minds. They analyze situations deeply, think before acting, and consider consequences others overlook. This makes them strong problem-solvers, planners, and creators. Many innovators, writers, developers, and leaders are introverts—not because they talk more, but because they think better. Small Circles, Strong Bonds I...

Overthinking is one of the most silent struggles of modern life. It doesn’t make noise, it doesn’t show on the face, yet it slowly drains energy, confidence, and peace. Many people believe thinking more will bring better results—but overthinking does the opposite. It traps the mind in endless loops of doubt, fear, and imaginary problems. What Is Overthinking? Overthinking is the habit of analyzing situations far beyond what is necessary. It means replaying past mistakes, worrying about future outcomes, and questioning every small decision. Instead of solving problems, the mind keeps circling around them. There are two common types: Rumination – obsessing over the past (“What if I had done that differently?”) Worrying – stressing about the future (“What if everything goes wrong?”) Both steal the present moment. Why Do We Overthink? Overthinking often comes from: Fear of failure Fear of judgment Past trauma or repeated rejection Lack of confidence ...

Laziness doesn’t arrive loudly. It doesn’t announce itself as a villain. It comes quietly, disguised as rest , comfort , or “I’ll do it tomorrow.” And that’s why it’s dangerous. Laziness Is Not Sleeping—It’s Escaping Real rest heals you. Laziness numbs you. When we’re lazy, we aren’t tired—we’re avoiding. Avoiding responsibility. Avoiding discomfort. Avoiding the fear of failure. Instead of facing life, we choose distraction: Endless scrolling Binge-watching Overthinking without action Slowly, days pass. Then months. Then years. Dreams Don’t Die Overnight Dreams die in silence. They die when: You delay learning a skill You postpone applying for that job You ignore your health You wait for motivation instead of discipline Laziness doesn’t kill your dream directly. It starves it. Laziness Weakens the Body First A lazy lifestyle slowly destroys the body: Muscles weaken Energy levels drop Immunity reduces Mental fog increas...

In today’s world, hard work is celebrated like a badge of honor. Sleepless nights, endless to-do lists, and constant grinding are often glorified as signs of success. But what happens when hard work stops being a choice and starts becoming an addiction? This is the side of hustle culture we rarely talk about. When Hard Work Turns Into Addiction Hard work becomes an addiction when rest feels like guilt, not relief. When taking a break makes you anxious. When your worth is measured only by productivity. Slowly, silently, the line between dedication and obsession disappears. At first, it feels empowering. You feel driven, focused, unstoppable. But over time, the cost begins to show—physically, mentally, and emotionally. Signs You Might Be Addicted to Hard Work You feel uncomfortable or restless during free time You ignore health, sleep, or relationships for work You fear falling behind if you stop, even briefly You define success only by how much you work Yo...

  For the last three years, rejection has been my most consistent companion. Not always loud. Not always clear. Sometimes just silence. Emails that never came back. Interviews that ended with “We’ll get back to you.” Applications sent with hope, followed by weeks of waiting. At first, rejection feels temporary. You tell yourself, “Next one will work.” Then months pass. Then years. And slowly, rejection starts to feel personal. The First Year: Hope Was Stronger Than Reality In the beginning, I was confident. I believed skills mattered. I believed effort mattered. I believed sincerity mattered. Every rejection felt like a small push back, not a wall. I improved my resume, learned new skills, practiced interviews, and kept applying. Hope was still alive because I thought rejection was part of the process. And it is—just not in the way I imagined. The Second Year: Doubt Started Asking Questions By the second year, rejection stopped feeling educational and s...

Education is no longer limited to classrooms, blackboards, and textbooks. With the rapid growth of technology, the way we learn has transformed completely. From online courses to artificial intelligence, technology has made learning faster, smarter, and more accessible than ever before. 1. Learning Anytime, Anywhere Technology has removed the boundaries of time and place. With smartphones, laptops, and internet access, learners can study from anywhere in the world. Online platforms like e-learning websites, mobile apps, and video tutorials allow students and professionals to learn at their own pace, whether it’s early morning or late at night. This flexibility is especially helpful for working professionals and students who cannot attend traditional classes. 2. Online Courses and Digital Classrooms Online education platforms offer courses on almost every subject—from coding and business skills to arts and languages. Virtual classrooms, video lectures, and recorded sess...

Finding a job in 2025 can feel like shouting into a void. If you’ve spent your weeks refreshing LinkedIn, tweaking your resume for the thousandth time, and receiving nothing but "automated rejection" emails, you are not alone. The job market has fundamentally shifted. Here is a look at why it feels so difficult right now and how you can navigate the "New Normal." Why is it so hard right now? Several factors have converged to create a perfect storm for job seekers. It isn't just "you"—it’s a systemic shift in how companies hire. 1. The "AI Noise" Problem Artificial Intelligence has made it easier than ever to apply for jobs. With "one-click" applications and AI-generated resumes, recruiters are being buried. In 2021, a job seeker might have applied to 15 roles before landing one; in 2025, that number has jumped to an average of 30 to 50 applications, with some entry-level candidates submitting over 200. 2. The Rise of ...

Love is soft, beautiful and comforting. But sometimes, love is not love — it is addiction. Addiction of a person. It starts sweet like sugar, but slowly becomes poison. This blog explores the dark and scary side of love addiction, and why it can destroy a person silently. When Love Turns into a Drug A normal relationship gives joy and peace. But love addiction works like a drug: You crave their messages You wait for their attention You feel restless without them One day of silence feels like death. Your brain wants their presence the same way an addict wants alcohol or cigarettes. It is not romance. It is withdrawal. The Hidden Pain From outside, everything looks normal. You smile, you talk, you work… but inside you are hurting. Love addiction pain is invisible: You check phone again and again Your hands shake when they are online You can’t sleep You lose appetite You cry silently at night. Your heart beats fast. Your chest feels heavy. This is not love — this is fear of lo...